2011年11月15日星期二

Lessons Learned - Four Years Cancer Free

My colleague Agi requested me latestly, "so what have you ever be tolded from most cancers?"

 

I spoke back, "I at all times regardless thatt it used to be approximately tension - cancer was once a lesson on the way to influence clear of tension."

 

nevertheless it isturn into greater than that. Cancer has taught me many stuff. a fewI at all times recognise and act on. differents I desire a kick up the butt to do not forget that!

 

this is my most practical5 lessonsbe informeded, court docketesy of cancer:

 

1. the one one who can say 'no' is you. even in case your colleagues would possibly see you overloadverting your self with obligations, processs, and obligations, and so they recognise you've gotten been via cancer, best you'll be able to mention 'no'. do not look forward to someoneelse to take duty on your lifestyles - not even your adoring husband will do this - you have got do it to your self. So get up company, imagine within the primacy of your non-publiclife, and say 'no' to what doesn't decorateyou in thriving.

 

2. what is the purpose in being concerned?
in truth, that is my husband Rob's motto. he is the happiest man on the earth (you'll inform as he hums in the expresser every morning). it is a smart lesson and that i in reality wanted it wrooster going via cancer. you'll are living in concern , or you'll reside in potake a seative be expectingation. both way the longer term is unidentified, so would possibly as smartly be ok with what is coming as an alterlocalof dstudying it.

 

three. The small elements really count. announcing thanks , a heat hug, purchasing any oneelsearch engines cofprice, realizing the squeejee man's name who waits for you on the nook to scrub your automobile home windows, jonquils that bloom on your startday, members of the family who love you sufficient to name you even you probably have not referred to because the m in six months, observes from appreciative beginners that make your day, your husband who makes dinternal every night time. (ok, that is really a large one, but it surelies uponolartil counts!) those little motright herents make up the in styleof your life on a daily basis - are searching citadelhem out. provide them out!

 

four .  the large elements really count.  Did you disregard to rejoice? Milestones can whip earlier you faster than a grasclient despatchecube ped to an airaircraft. it isplainto get stuck up in the busy-ness of life and chiefsend - you should definitely smost effectiveand get pleasure from your succeed inments. pincreases are a just right factor too. keepping at Ondina's is a gloriouspraise - i will be able to pricel my walallow burning a hollow in my pocket at this time along with her greater than 5zerop.c off sale going down...

 

do not fancy a travel out? napping on the sofa with a favorite ebook, mooching aspherical for your jammies after a snooze-in, and taking every weekend off to easily 'be' also are superb pincreases.

 

5. every so occasionallyyou will get stuck up in old trends. Be ok with that. don't beat your self up. sendlaystation , airaircrafts, and also you're regularly off-path because the y make tinheritor way to tinheritor desticountry. So if you end up worryting concerning the 'old stuff' - like how large your butt is, or whether or not the peopleat your new process will such as you , or mattressroom cabinets that needrepairing, or the truth thon the '&$@#' printer would possibly not print - it isok. This simply too scorridor move. recover from it, or pay any individualto mend it for you - butt come withd.

 

finally, life is an artistic revel in, like pottery - a fewrevel ins are beautiful; differents are like lumplaystation of pooh which were sell odestiny up the spmoteling wheel. Just blankup, have a good time, and go once more.

 

Life is just too brief to get wound up, drink unhealthy wine, and eat reasonablechocolate.

 

To your scrumptious life!

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